217 DOORS
Our lives are like houses filled with rooms, each holding pieces of who we are—our thoughts, hopes, fears, and memories. Questions are the doors that invite us to step inside, offering a deeper understanding of what lies within. Without the courage to open them, we remain on the surface, never truly knowing another's soul.
In the skyscraper of your partner's heart, mind, and soul, countless doors lead to rooms guarding treasures—some joyful, others painful, surprising, or yet undiscovered. Instead of lingering in the hallway of your relationship, imagine gently knocking and exploring these spaces.
Here are 217 doors to open. Choose a category that sparks your curiosity and begin an adventure to uncover the rooms of your spouse's life, just beyond the threshold.
- What is your favorite restaurant?
- What was your best subject in school?
- What is your favorite holiday of the year?
- Did you ever have a nickname? What was it?
- What was your first job?
- Would you rather be the funniest or the smartest person in the room?
- What is your definition of success?
- What would a perfect day look like?
- What do you need more of in your life?
- What do you really care about?
- Who is someone you admire and why?
- If you could meet any celebrity, who would it be?
- What helps you cope when things are hard?
- What's the longest you've gone without sleep?
- What is the first thing you do every morning?
- If you could master any skill instantly, what would it be and why?
- What would your dream home look like?
- What is your happiest memory from the last year?
- If you could live in any time period, which would you choose?
- What is one thing you've never done but always wanted to try?
- If you could trade lives with anyone for a day, who would it be and why?
- What's a hobby you've always admired but never tried?
- If you could make one law that everyone had to follow, what would it be?
- What's a small act of kindness that meant a lot to you?
- What's something you've discovered about yourself recently?
- If you could write a book, what would it be about?
- What's a moment in your life that felt like pure magic?
- What's a question you wish people would ask you but rarely do?
- If you could describe your life in one metaphor, what would it be?
- What was your best family vacation and why?
- When was your family of origin at its best?
- What was one of your family's highest values?
- What lesson did you learn from your family of origin?
- Who was your strangest relative and why?
- What is the worst gift you ever received?
- What is the best gift you ever received?
- What was the best gift you ever gave?
- What family moment do you wish you could erase from your memory?
- What family trait are you committed to not carrying on?
- How did you feel about where you grew up?
- What was your favorite TV show growing up?
- What qualities do you look for in a friend?
- What family traditions do you want to create or carry on?
- How did your parents celebrate holidays, and do you want to do it differently?
- What family story do you wish you knew more about?
- Who in your family influenced you the most, and how?
- What is something your family always laughed about?
- What is a family tradition you secretly disliked growing up?
- How did your family handle conflict, and how has that shaped you?
- What is a family story or joke you love telling?
- What is the most unusual thing about your family of origin?
- When do you feel most relaxed?
- What is your favorite type of movie?
- What is your favorite game to play?
- What sport do you see absolutely no value in?
- If you could be a professional athlete, what sport would you play?
- When do you feel most free?
- What hobby do you wish you could have?
- What is the best book you've ever read?
- Where would you rather vacation, Hawaii or Alaska? Why?
- What is a fun memory of us that you'd like to recreate?
- If you could spend an entire day doing anything you wanted, what would it be?
- What's the weirdest thing you've ever tried for fun?
- What do you find entertaining that others might not?
- If you could create your own game, what would it be like?
- What's your favorite way to spend a rainy day?
- If you could live inside a fictional universe, which one would it be?
- What's the most adventurous thing you've done for fun?
- What's a TV show or movie you love that no one would expect you to like?
- What is your favorite comfort food?
- What is your drink of choice?
- What is a food you find irresistible?
- What is your favorite dish to cook?
- Would you rather have someone cook your favorite meal or take you to your favorite restaurant?
- What is the most unique or weird food you have ever eaten?
- Pineapple on pizza? Yes or no?
- What is a food you've never tried but want to?
- Who taught you the most about cooking or food?
- What meal would you want me to learn to cook for you?
- If you were a spice, which one would you be and why?
- What food instantly brings back memories?
- If you could invent a new dish, what would it be called and what would it include?
- What's the most memorable meal you've ever had?
- If you had to eat one cuisine for the rest of your life, which would it be?
- What's the weirdest food combination you've ever tried and liked?
- What is your favorite pastime or hobby?
- If you could own any vehicle, what would it be?
- If you were a tool in the workshop, which tool would you be and why?
- Would you rather be a race car mechanic or a driver? Why?
- What was your scariest moment in a vehicle of any kind?
- What is your favorite mode of transportation?
- What do you love most / least about the vehicle you drive?
- What would be your dream DIY project to work on together?
- If you could restore any classic car, which one would it be?
- What's the most useful thing you've ever built or fixed?
- If you had unlimited tools, what would you build?
- What does your ideal workshop look like?
- What's a DIY project you've always wanted to tackle but haven't yet?
- If you could design a custom vehicle, what features would it have?
- What's a quirky or unique tool you've seen and wanted to try?
- What's your most memorable road trip and why?
- When you were a child, what job did you dream of having?
- What is the best part of your job?
- What is the most challenging part of your job?
- What do you wish you could delegate to someone else?
- If you could have an entirely different career, what would it be?
- What is something you are proud of that few people know about?
- If you were the CEO of the company where you work, what would you change first?
- Where do you see yourself in 5 years?
- Who inspires you?
- What's the best career advice you've ever received?
- If you could shadow anyone at their job for a day, who would it be?
- What motivates you to keep going when work gets tough?
- If you could attend any conference or seminar, what would it be about?
- What workplace value matters most to you?
- What's a skill you've learned at work that has helped you in life?
- If you could create a start-up, what problem would you solve?
- What's a job you'd love to try for just one week?
- Who has been the most influential mentor in your career?
- If you have kids, what is the best part of parenting?
- Do you have any regrets as a parent?
- What is your earliest childhood memory?
- What was your relationship with your parents like?
- What do you wish your parents had done differently?
- How would your kids describe you?
- What is your favorite thing to do with your kids?
- What could I do/have done better as a parent?
- What childhood dream did you give up on, and why?
- What is something you loved as a child that still brings you joy?
- What is a silly or mischievous thing you did as a kid?
- What toy or game did you treasure most as a child?
- If you could give your kids one life lesson, what would it be?
- What's a lesson you learned from a child that surprised you?
- If you could relive one moment with your kids, which one would it be?
- What's a game or activity you loved as a kid that you'd like to teach your own kids?
- What's a piece of advice you received as a kid that still sticks with you?
- What is a favorite childhood photo and why is it your favorite?
- What childhood moment do you wish you could relive?
- What is your earliest childhood memory?
- Who was your first crush on?
- Do you have a favorite childhood memory?
- Who was your favourite relative when you were growing up?
- What is a lie you regret telling?
- What are some of your favourite pet peeves?
- What was the most exciting adventure you were ever on?
- What is an object from your past you wish you still had?
- What is a story from your life that few people know?
- What childhood fear did you outgrow?
- Who was your best friend growing up, and where are they now?
- What was the hardest lesson you learned as a child?
- What's a piece of advice from an elder in your life that you value?
- What's a childhood possession you wish you could find again?
- What's a favorite memory with a childhood pet?
- What's a lesson from your past that took you the longest to understand?
- What's an unusual compliment you've received that stayed with you?
- If you could jump on a plane and go anywhere, where would it be? Why?
- If you were given $1 million, what is the first thing you would do or buy?
- If you don't like your name, what name would you wish you had been called?
- If you could be a fly-on-the-wall, where would you like to land?
- If you had three wishes, what would you wish for?
- If you could have a super-power, what would it be?
- Would you rather be on a dating show or a survival show?
- If you were an animal, which animal would you be and why?
- If you could travel through time, where and when would you go?
- What place do you dream of visiting together someday?
- If you had an extra hour in every day, how would you spend it?
- What is something adventurous you've always wanted to do?
- If you could design your own fantasy world, what would it look like?
- What would you do if you were invisible for a day?
- What's a place you'd love to explore that most people overlook?
- If you could live a day in history, which day would it be?
- What's the boldest decision you've ever made on a whim?
- What's an “out of character” thing you've always wanted to try?
- What is your biggest fear?
- What is a personal trait you're not proud of?
- What makes you sad?
- What three words describe what you are most grateful for?
- What is your biggest regret?
- What brings the greatest joy to your life?
- What causes the feeling of pressure in your life?
- What is the worst you have ever felt physically?
- What is something you hesitate to tell me, but you will?
- What keeps you awake at night?
- What's on your bucket list?
- Have you ever broken the law and got caught?
- What is a do-over you wish you could have?
- What is something you know you need to stop doing?
- If you could change something about yourself, what would it be?
- What area of your life would you like to grow in?
- How is your soul?
- What is one thing you're afraid to fail at?
- If you could rewrite one moment in your life, what would it be?
- What's a hard truth about yourself that you've come to accept?
- What's one thing about yourself that you'd like to improve?
- If you could ask for forgiveness from one person, who would it be and why?
- What's a fear you've overcome, and how did you do it?
- What's something you're secretly proud of but don't share often?
- What's a recurring thought or worry you have lately?
- What's a hidden strength you wish others saw in you?
- What is your love language?
- Would you rather cuddle or make out?
- If we went for couple's therapy, what would we talk about?
- How would you define a perfect relationship?
- What is your favorite bedroom experience?
- When and how did you first learn about sex?
- How could we improve our relationship in the next year?
- Do you like talking about our bedroom experiences with me?
- What are we not doing that you wish we would do?
- What am I/are we doing that you wish we wouldn't do?
- When do you feel like our relationship is at its best?
- Have I ever said or done something that's offensive without even realizing it?
- What is something we've never done in the bedroom (or any other room in the house) that you would like to?
- What is a small thing I do that makes you feel loved?
- What is your favorite way to relax together?
- What do you dream about for us in the next five years?
- What do you wish we did more often in our relationship?
- What do you need from me when you're feeling distant or disconnected?